To people suffering from the 12 ways described above: You could also just be a passionate developer working in an environment full of mediocre colleagues with managers not giving a s. if solutions are of high quality or just garbage. Stay passionate and find a job where excellence is valued, appreciated and honoured.
It's easy to have a yes, but for the ones I answered yesterday to.
#4. Yes, but I have body issues and don't like being on camera, plus my neurodivergent brain doesn't context switch well. Even when I want to pay attention to a different task, my brain doesn't always cooperate
#6&7 Yes, but I'm not going to apologize for my sexuality or my gender, which are the things that cause 75% of the interpersonal issues I've had at work including one illegal firing
9. Yes, but I get overstimulated by social interaction
10. Yes, but I do over solutions when it is is something that is solvable and I can figure out a solution. And I like to joke that complaining is my family's love language. And some people have complained that I don't complain enough, so I just can't win on that one 🤷♀️ (<- me complaining about other people complaining about me complaining lol)
Overall, I do my best to live by the philosophy that if I don't like someone, they will probably never know it, unless someone else tells them. I try to be as helpful as possible whenever I can, but there's just a limit to how much peopling I can do
To people suffering from the 12 ways described above: You could also just be a passionate developer working in an environment full of mediocre colleagues with managers not giving a s. if solutions are of high quality or just garbage. Stay passionate and find a job where excellence is valued, appreciated and honoured.
So I guess I'm about 30% difficult? lol
It's easy to have a yes, but for the ones I answered yesterday to.
#4. Yes, but I have body issues and don't like being on camera, plus my neurodivergent brain doesn't context switch well. Even when I want to pay attention to a different task, my brain doesn't always cooperate
#6&7 Yes, but I'm not going to apologize for my sexuality or my gender, which are the things that cause 75% of the interpersonal issues I've had at work including one illegal firing
9. Yes, but I get overstimulated by social interaction
10. Yes, but I do over solutions when it is is something that is solvable and I can figure out a solution. And I like to joke that complaining is my family's love language. And some people have complained that I don't complain enough, so I just can't win on that one 🤷♀️ (<- me complaining about other people complaining about me complaining lol)
Overall, I do my best to live by the philosophy that if I don't like someone, they will probably never know it, unless someone else tells them. I try to be as helpful as possible whenever I can, but there's just a limit to how much peopling I can do